gotta earn my keep so polishing in a fashion while listening. to jon m.
thinking when i first made friends with my now good friend jill and when i first got the computer i told everything from the start, warts and all, shy, can,t get out, not much experience, didnt see anyone, not well, likes, dislikes, ect all the things that would make anyone run a mile, then miles down the line they cant say "you never said" ..up front always best. saves a lot of bother.
also getting into internet dating relationships before others know all about you is leading them up the garden path, let them listen, read, take time first, then you can,t get into trouble..if they like you they,ll like you for yourself,,personality, mind,..all the things that last in the long run. other things fade,
me and jill found we had everything in common cos she likes same things as me, is quiet, likes her own company too, so we only need to see each other now and again for a short time,
without the other thinking they were being ignored for some one or some thing better,, we don,t intrude. both hermits at times really.
individuals, i won,t follow the pack, if that gets me hurt or ignored i have to suffer the consequences, when i get out i want friends that will accept me for what and who i am, hours dotted here and there will do me..so i can go back to peace and quiet now and again..everyone needs space esp me, doubt there,ll be many share my views. i,ll keep searching for like minded friends. back to work.
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